Comparisons

Galatians 6:3-5
If anyone thinks he is something when he is nothing, he deceives himself. Each one should test his own actions. Then he can take pride in himself, without comparing himself to somebody else, for each one should carry his own load.

We’ve talked about others sinning, and our helping to carry their burdens, but now the focus comes right back around to us. It is generally more difficult to look at ourselves honestly, than it is to look at others, isn’t it? I wonder why that is.
I think that most of us have one of two reactions to an inward look – we are either too soft, or too harsh. We can sugar-coat everything, convincing ourselves that our motives are pure, and our actions are God-centered. Or we can just beat ourselves up for each and every little thing we do wrong, always assuming the worst of ourselves. Which do you lean toward? I know exactly where I land.
Neither is a healthy way of living, and it takes a lot of time, practice, and help to get to the point where honest introspection comes naturally. Honesty is so important, as is resisting the urge to compare ourselves to others (which is another thing we like to do – both good and bad). However, when we get to the point where we can finally look at and test our actions, and see them for what they truly are, we will be able to look to God for any adjustments we will need, and go on our way. We will be able to see what He wants of us, and whether or not that is the direction we are headed. Easier said than done, isn’t it? Then we can be proud about what God is doing in and through us. Not a haughty pride, but a pride that looks into the face of God, and declares His great glory every step of the way.
Why should we work toward this? Because God has something He wants to do in and through each and every one of us. And each adventure is different. Completely different. We cannot compare, because there is no way to do so and have it really work. What God is asking of me will not be what He asks of you. And each of us needs to “carry his own load,” because there is no one else in the same position to be as effective. There is no one else uniquely and perfectly equipped to do what God has designed us to do.
So let’s step-up, look at ourselves honestly, and ask God what He would have us do next. Let’s not worry about next year, next week, or even tomorrow, only what He wants us to do today. Will you join me?